With the new age movement now in full swing most of hear at least once a day that we need to rid ourselves of negativity and focus on just the positive. 90% of the popular spiritual teaches will tell you that this is the key to happiness, but from some of us this have never been enough. No matter how hard we try negativity doesn't go away. It pops up in our lives time and time again and is the number one reason that people stop believing that they create there own reality. They figure that it must not be true because if they rid themselves of negative thoughts and habits that only good can manifest and when it doesn't they turn away.
The problem with this idea is that its wrong. As I have talked about before duality is fundamental part of this dimension. You can't know love without being able to simultaneous understand fear. Same goes for happiness, you can't know true happiness without recognizing what its not. At the same time this concept is extremely hard for people to except and I myself have been called terrible names and received enough back lash to know that many never will be okay with this concept. Imagine if Eckhart Tolle said that a child with cancer manifested their own cancer. People would stop listening and it is for this reason most teachers stick with the positive and say out with the negative.
Unfortunately, when you try to rid yourself of negativity your are really trying to rid yourself of your ego/subconscious mind, which is fundamental to your survival. None of us would have made it long in this reality without them. This whole idea that you must eradicate the ego from the soul causes nothing but resistance within your vibration. Which is why understanding vibration and how it effects the world around is is crucial to understanding the purpose of negativity.
Inside your Adams are protons and neutrons moving at a certain rate. This rate changes in living things depending on what message they either subconsciously or consciously sending out into the universe. Which means that your ego also has the ability to create. This is where those unwanted things that pop up in life come from.
From here its easy to see how trying to rid yourself of the ego is........ well impossible. In fact its purpose like I said above is to cause duality within the self to cause growth. So instead of ignoring it and trying to rid of negativity I recommend you FINALLY give yourself permission to go into those negative feelings and use these opportunities to grow instead of avoiding them. By doing this your are healing something your ego/subconscious mind felt the need to be healed. This will also allow you to better communicate with your emotional body, which is neglected when you choose to ignore negative emotions.
What you will find over time is that most the negative your were creating was because you were avoiding a certain negative emotion which oddly enough is what the subconscious mind focused on and thus its created in your reality. You will also begin to notice that by embracing the negative you are motivating personal growth and expansion.
Now for many of you this is still confusing and hard to understand especially if you are big on positive focus and thats okay. I have seem people go through this many times and it never works if you don't already have an idea of how you create your reality and if you jump right into the negative stuff you wont understand how much influence you are to the physical world and lose interest quickly. Especially since its often very unpleasant.
For those of you that feel your ready to dive into this shadow work is a great place to start. Some just like to meditate every time they feel a negative feeling and than journal about it. I doesn't matter how you go about doing as long as you are doing it. Im planning on adding more about this subject to the website at a later date and in the mean time feel free to email me any questions you might have.
Have a wonderful day!!!
The problem with this idea is that its wrong. As I have talked about before duality is fundamental part of this dimension. You can't know love without being able to simultaneous understand fear. Same goes for happiness, you can't know true happiness without recognizing what its not. At the same time this concept is extremely hard for people to except and I myself have been called terrible names and received enough back lash to know that many never will be okay with this concept. Imagine if Eckhart Tolle said that a child with cancer manifested their own cancer. People would stop listening and it is for this reason most teachers stick with the positive and say out with the negative.
Unfortunately, when you try to rid yourself of negativity your are really trying to rid yourself of your ego/subconscious mind, which is fundamental to your survival. None of us would have made it long in this reality without them. This whole idea that you must eradicate the ego from the soul causes nothing but resistance within your vibration. Which is why understanding vibration and how it effects the world around is is crucial to understanding the purpose of negativity.
Inside your Adams are protons and neutrons moving at a certain rate. This rate changes in living things depending on what message they either subconsciously or consciously sending out into the universe. Which means that your ego also has the ability to create. This is where those unwanted things that pop up in life come from.
From here its easy to see how trying to rid yourself of the ego is........ well impossible. In fact its purpose like I said above is to cause duality within the self to cause growth. So instead of ignoring it and trying to rid of negativity I recommend you FINALLY give yourself permission to go into those negative feelings and use these opportunities to grow instead of avoiding them. By doing this your are healing something your ego/subconscious mind felt the need to be healed. This will also allow you to better communicate with your emotional body, which is neglected when you choose to ignore negative emotions.
What you will find over time is that most the negative your were creating was because you were avoiding a certain negative emotion which oddly enough is what the subconscious mind focused on and thus its created in your reality. You will also begin to notice that by embracing the negative you are motivating personal growth and expansion.
Now for many of you this is still confusing and hard to understand especially if you are big on positive focus and thats okay. I have seem people go through this many times and it never works if you don't already have an idea of how you create your reality and if you jump right into the negative stuff you wont understand how much influence you are to the physical world and lose interest quickly. Especially since its often very unpleasant.
For those of you that feel your ready to dive into this shadow work is a great place to start. Some just like to meditate every time they feel a negative feeling and than journal about it. I doesn't matter how you go about doing as long as you are doing it. Im planning on adding more about this subject to the website at a later date and in the mean time feel free to email me any questions you might have.
Have a wonderful day!!!